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No matter how much you learn – love is the answer

WOW

I have had an amazing few days, whilst making massive strides in my mission to make Life Coaching and Personal Development even more available to young people around the world.

Last weekend in Amersham I trained around 50 experienced coaches in the practicalities of Youth Coaching and I am so excited about the action they have already taken and have planned.

Then I was off to Blackpool and spoke at a conference for 200 of the UK’s finest civil servants inspiring them to be the best they can be and introducing them to youth coaching!

Then I was back in London, Oxford St of all places [no I was not shopping!] Delivering the one day coaching course to 100 young people [18-25]. Once again the letters of gratitude have been flooding in, sharing how the skills learnt and the experience shared has already impacted their lives and how they have even more confidence to get out their and help the poeple they serve and love

Now today is a day of reflection for me and whilst my wife and kids are at their respective schools, I have been reflecting and giving gratitude to all the amazing gifts i have been blessed with over the years, knowledge, experiences, people and so on.

When Kate [my wife] popped back for lunch I was ready to share with her all my gratitude for the lessons that I have aquired along my journey that I am blessed to share with others…

And before I could, I noticed she was not her usual super happy, bubbly self

So when I asked she shared that she was a little upset, because a young boy that she works with had shared some pretty disturbing information about what was happening to him at home!

Now Kate being the amazing professional she is listened to him and heard all that he had to share without overtly expressing her horror at what she was hearing!

Kate and her team took the appropriate steps required and all is in hand, what i want to focus on here was that I asked Kate how she felt and do you know what she shared me?

She was concerned that if this young boy does not see change in his circumstances he may not share or confide in her or anyone else for that matter.

My response was “well he did not choose to share with  anyone else before today, so at least he knows he does have someone who will listen and believe him, should he choose to share”

AND then Kate hit me with the biggest lesson

She shared that she was a little upset that whilst she had to write up a report on the matter above, she had to inform another young boy that the time she was due to spend with him had to be postponed and the little boy seemed so distraught and said ‘i enjoy my time with you “

Kate felt really bad

And being the amazing person she is, she decided that she would catch up with the young man who she had to postpone her session with and say to him that she too enjoys their session and missed it too today and that it was a one off.

What’s the lesson here?

I told my wife I love her soooo much as no matter how much time and money I have spent with all the amazing people who have shared their wisdom with me over the years, Kate reminded me that the most important thing is to keep the most important thing the most important thing.

Love is the answer – My wife LOVES the kids she ‘works’ with and they know it

In a world where we are busy ‘helping’ step back and let the young person you are serving know that you can make time for them and that they ARE special

I Love you Katie Singha

x

All comments appreciated

Brian Tracy and Robert Kiyosaki

Hey

Brian Tracy and Robert Kiyosaki are causing a bit of a stir in my world at the moment

So I figured I want to find out how these guys have impacted other people’s lives

Or in fact whether there were people in my circle that had not heard of them!

So hear are a few prompts for your shares:

1) Do you know who they are?

2) What are your experiences of them/their work?

3) How have they impacted your life?

4) Finally if you could ask them one question [each] what would it be?

Now, I am not going to offer you an ‘amazing gift’  for your comments [other than I may get your question answered!]

just my sincerest and humblest gratitude for your contribution

In fact that’s another blog post about what would make a great ‘gift’ for YOU

[oh go on then if you want to post that now feel free!]

Anyway now let me hear YOUR Brian Tracy and Robert Kiyosaki stories

Super Thanks

Harry

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The 12 year old Investor

I spent an amazing day with my son Harrison today

As we do …

What was different was that today Harrison chose to spend an afternoon learning about investing !!!

I am very grateful for Minesh Bhindi who spent a few hours with Harrison 1-1 covering:

1) what is investing

2) trading versus buying stocks for long term

3) Compounding

4) how to virtually trade and buy stocks

5) how to set up his bank accounts so he can manage his money between SPENDING, Investing and Contributing!

And so much more [ including cars, apple macs, websites, creating products, football and those are just what Harrison was sharing!]

Harrison came home and not only shared what he had learnt with his mum, he did the same Rosie, his 8 year old sister!

So the lesson here is

Are you making any money? {If not sort it out! At least Go and find someone who is and copy them}

If you are making money no matter what the amount is BEGIN NOW to put a percentage of everything you earn aside for investing. Become an investor! It’s never too late and definitely never too Early!

Happy Investing Everyone

I would love to hear your comments on simple and practical steps you have taken to become an INVESTOR

Thanks

New Look Blog and Who are your unsung ‘Gurus’ ?

Hey

Dad

Harrison

Thanks Dad Arsenal European away games would be great ;-)

12 April 10 at 04:17

The Truths of Our World for My Babies

I am putting together a simple guide for myself as a parent

I believe passionately that parents have a duty to teach their children universal laws

not just what is taught in schools or via mass media

I am inviting posts from everyone on what they consider to be ‘undeniable truths’

that we either do or more likely do not get taught in school

I will collate these all into a guide that I will share with my kids daily and in

many creative ways

Thank You for sharing

Oh and I will of course post a copy on my site for all of you [for FREE]

Harry

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December 2009 Special Message

Below is the message I sent out to the Harry Singha Community as my December 2009 message

Hey

Firstly may I begin with saying a huge thank you for joining me on
my site www.HarrySingha.com and for taking the action to adding your email

I do not take it lightly when people add their names as for me I do
not operate from the paradigm of building a ‘list’, for me its more
about building a community

I am going to commit to sending out every month one main email to
you and all that are in the Harry Singha Community.
This main email will not be a sales pitch, it will be a share from my
heart to yours on whatever theme I may be focusing on that month.

Of course I want to see as many of you on my
“Ultimate Challenge – Light Up Your Life Seminar”
each year and I will be sending out separate emails in relation to that.

So it’s December and like most months for me gratitude is very prevalent,
yet December sees an increase in most other people too and that’s always
super refreshing!

Many of you will know of my own personal story of overcoming adversity
and not just forgiving, but moving to a point of being so grateful for
the most challenging periods of my life!
If you don’t then I’ll see you at Light Up Your Life

So I was having a conversation with someone yesterday and he knows who
he is and I was being my usual direct self and letting him know how
selfish he was being by wallowing in self pity of his ‘challenges’

Then I recommended he checks out a video of a young man that I admire
and love so dearly and challenged him to come back to me and look me
in the eye and tell me if he was not grateful for his amazing life
rather than keep pouring out a story of what’s wrong with relationships
or business etc

So this got me thinking and I have decided that this will be my gift for
you as you are in my community. I pose the same challenge to you too

Sure in life you have and probably will get knocked back or DOWN!
Will you get back up and moan or will you rise and be grateful?

Please check out the video on the link below then add a comment on my
blog where I will copy this message there http://harysingha.com/blog

You may or may not have seen the video before, if you have
then please comment on how watching it again supports you
If its your first exposure to this amazing individual then let me know
the meaning you have taken

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=v4uG2kSdd-4

Enjoy, have a wonderful December whatever you are celebrating
Keep shining your light
Harry

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Brasov [Romania] Community Coaching Programme

I have just returned from one of the most amazing and humbling experiences of my life.

Yes I have delivered many Community Coaching Programmes around the world, so what made this one extra special?

Firstly this event was fully sponsored by the amazing Community Coaching Programme Champions [Yes always looking for more, contact me for details!]

Therefore every participant had their place fully sponsored

Secondly I was able to support my dear friend Ramona Pintea realise a vision and promise she made as a 16 year old. Her story itself is enough to make you reach for a tissue!

Ramona grew up in communist Romania and experienced the horrors and oppression of that era [lets remember it was only a couple of decades ago and i will share all the details in my interview with her later]. When communist rule was overturned by the revolution, just a few days after Ramona was at school and a truck arrived, laden with fruit, including bananas. She had never seen a banana before in her life. The truck load was a gift from a very wealthy Romanian who had moved to USA and at the first opportunity he had he was able to contribute to his community! Ramona had a paradigm shift – She had been conditioned that Rich and Wealthy people were evil and cared only for themselves, she just could not work out why this guy would think of them and send them such gifts. She decided that people do care and committed there and then to a vision of abundance and prosperity. Plus she promised herself that one day she too would come back to her school bearing gifts to remind the community that others do care. Her gift was not in the form of bananas, no it was me and the essential youth coaching skills programme!

So I found myself in the beautiful town of Brasov in Romania with just under 200 young people from various schools and some staff and partner organisations.

Well we did what we do and the reception was magical and humbling

The impact was and continues to be phenomenal and for the first time I will share the gratitude letters from the participants with even more people and not just the CCP Champs [who will receive so much more, videos, pics and a special DVD just for you!]

So if you attended the event please do add your comments here, I will be pasting comments that I receive via emails on here so do come back and check it out.

If you were not there, you are still very welcome to add comments

With gratitude and love

Harry

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Jaimie Brofft

Thank you. Extremely useful entry.

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Harley Radle

I'm happy !It is simple to see that you are passionate about your writing. Looking forward to future posts.Thanks!

13 April 10 at 02:25

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Lighting Up Lives

Wow

Just got back home to my wonderful family and am looking forward to a few days of magical moments with them.

So just a quick post to say the first ever Ultimate Challenge – Light Up Your Life seminar was a super success.

I have just spent the last few days with a group of amazing and enlightened souls who have redefined their Ultimate Challenge, had some amazing breakthrough moments and now [unlike most personal development porgrammes] are on their 90 day coaching and masterminding programme to support each other to absolutely follow through on their commitments long after the euphoria of the live event [and boy oh boy was it amazing]

Anyway keep checking in to hear what those that overcame their challenges to attend the event [and trust me] had to say, as they post on here

Keep shining

Harry

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Overcoming The Biggest Challenge to Attend

We’ve all heard about people overcoming adversity
and taking on challenges they’ve never thought would
happen for them.

Like the young boy who travelled 2 miles through the
heat and dust just to get to school and learn… and
became one of the most influential men on the planet…

Like the guy who had a great business idea but who heard
‘NO’ over 700 times before he hit the really big money…

Like the housewife with 3 small children who chucked out her
cheating husband, went back to study law and became one of the
most inspiring people of her time…

The stories are everywhere…

Just like for those looking to make it to my Ultimate Challenge
Seminar.

Some of the stories are heartbreaking.

And some are truly magical.

One lady is moving heaven and earth in order to get childminders,
family and friends to look after her children whilst she’s
at the seminar.

Another person is booking tickets to fly down from Portugal – even
though he’s skint like flint – but believes, really believes that
he’s going to 100% turn things around.

I’m in conversation with someone who said to me that she
thought that Coventry wouldn’t be a place that would stimulate her
enough to really let her creative energy and juices, flow.

So I coached her on that… that Coventry wouldn’t be an inspiring
place for her.

- So tell me Jackie (named changed here), who would you say inspires
you?

“Oh, Steven Covey, Anthony Robbins, the dear old man in the
bakery I’ve know for 22 years, my mum, Lady Diana…”

- Okay, so what is it about Steven Covey that makes him a hero to you?

“Well, his books and his personal balance are really exquisite. He’s
got wonderful stuff to share with everyone”.

- So am I right in saying that it is his books that are transformational
for you?

“Yes, that’s right.”

- So what would the impact be for you if you read his books in a spare
room in your house, lying on the beach, or in a plane flying to
another country?

“There probably wouldn’t be any difference”

- So suppose the material I’ll be sharing with you for three days
was conducted in Coventry, Barbados, London or the Philippines – would
the information change somewhat?

“No, probably not”

So can you see Jackie, it may not be Coventry at all that’s taking
you away from 3 transformational days – it could be a simple story that
you’re playing in your mind about it!

Let me tell you, ‘Jackie’ went away from our conversation with a lot more
understanding about how her thoughts seem to be clouding what she really wants
and we’re going to be speaking again in a few days.

I hope you can see that if you want something bad enough, no hurdle or
obstacle has a chance against you.

What about you?

What are you willing to do to be at the “Light Up Your Life Ultimate
Challenge seminar?

What are you willing to put aside and be there?

What hurdles and obstacles are you willing to crush and throw aside?

The truth of the matter is that for most of us, there comes a defining
moment that shifts our lives so we never return to that old way of being,
again.

I don’t really know how satisfied and how content you are in life; I don’t
know how much you’re really suffering inside if you’re not really living
the life you always thought you wanted.

And I don’t know if you’re willing to make a STAND, a real and true stand
for turning your life around.

If this email is the one conversation you’ve been waiting to hear for a
long, long time, then let THIS be YOUR defining moment.

Let THIS be the time where you commit everything you’ve got to being all
that you can be.

I for one, will be willing to partner with you in turning your life around.

That is, if you’ll let me help you.

If you’re on the fence about this, why not bet on yourself this time? Why
not throw everything else that’s happened in your life up to now, and
re-write a new powerful story about YOU?

I guarantee that you’ll walk out a completely different person from the
person that went in, in my Ultimate Challenge seminar.

It’s YOUR life – why not make it the best it can be from now on?

Go here and put your name down as one of those people who overcame everything
in order to be at the Ultimate Challenge Seminar.

http://harrysingha.com/ultimate-challenge-luyl.html

And there’s one thing that’ll happen for sure; your family and friends won’t
believe the dramatic shifts that seem to be happening in you, nearly every
single day.

And, it’ll all be to their benefit as well!

DO what you can – overcome everything and let’s meet for three solid days
that’ll set your life… ALIGHT!

With Gratitude,

Harry

http://harrysingha.com/ultimate-challenge-luyl.html

P.S Let me know what you’re willing to do in order to be at the UltimateChallenge seminar, by telling everyone about it on this blog, leave a comment

And, the one person who really does have to overcome THE MOST, will be in line for a really super prize. And it includes something that s/he values, that’s right
What’s the point in receiving prizes that have high retail value though not to You?
I look forward to presenting that prize to the person who really does overcome a challenge just to attend the event.

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